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Whether they're single and casually dating, married, or in long-term relationships, "Boomers want sexual activity," Blake explains. It makes them feel lively and young." Jill, 50, certainly feels fresh and vital when she sexts."It makes you a little more brave," she says. I might be a little more bold in a text message than I would be over the phone or in person." Sexting also makes the South Carolina nurse, who's been divorced for 15 years and enjoys casual dating, feel as if she had a "naughty secret." "If you're sitting in a restaurant waiting for your food, you can just talk dirty to someone, and no one knows what you're doing," Jill says, in a slow Southern drawl. But I'm also comfortable with hiding behind texting if I want to say something dirty." "That's exactly the appeal of sexting," according to New York psychotherapist and advice columnist Dr. "Because there's no anticipation of a direct verbal response, there's less at stake than if the conversation were being held the old-fashioned method: face-to-face," he says.
"Where there's less risk of being critiqued or judged, there's opportunity for greater sexual expression." "It also fits nicely into longtime couples' busy schedules to keep things spicy," says relationship and sexual health expert Genie James, who recommends sexting to couples who travel a lot, live apart in different cities or have trouble connecting throughout the day."It’s cheap," she says."It's quick. And nobody can hear you." James continues, "It's about setting the stage for sex and keeping passion alive. You're already doing it." But beware, the experts warn. For one thing, it can be easy to send a text to a wrong number, and that can be embarrassing — or worse.