I would also hesitate asking a woman where she’s originally from in a first email. You seem like the kind of energetic, open person I might get along with.
I get why he asks but some people are more sensitive about risks with online dating than others so I’d save it for a later email. I love staying busy, and I can usually have fun doing just about anything. Would you like to chat sometime…or since you like brunch so much, maybe meet in the city at somepoint?
Once she responds, I then move into specifics like favorite this or that.
Some of us have more experience or better insight than others but at the end of the day we’re all just making our best guesses.
I’m not going to change the general tone or point of the emails but I am trying to ensure he remains anonymous by changing some of the specifics.
Here is my reader’s first email to a girl who was originally from the same area as him Lonestar State What’s up?
That doesn’t mean always planning out involved activities, but like you said, making anything fun. I like to mix up my going out and relaxing nights at home, and always wanted to go sky diving or hang gliding or something along those lines. Starbucks and the Temple of Doom I think it’s really important to make everyday fun.
That doesn’t mean always planning out involved activities, but like you said, making anything fun.